Each one of us is influenced by our Judeo-Christian cultural up bringing which imposes Taboos thus limiting are actions by qualifying them as good or bad.

I had to undergo great delays from women wishing to experience my Tantric massage because of these Taboos and this is true of monogamy established as the rule of marriage for a couple.

Statistically, it is clear that infidelity causes breakups in couples to the point that today the average life of a couple is around 5 years.




It's not human nature which imposed monogamy in our way of life but rules established by man in the context of our civilisation. Thinking about yourself, you could admit that on many occasions the thought of making love to another person has crossed your mind but should you do it the thought of infidelity becomes paramount (addressing myself to you, woman who is presently reading this text) but if you never do it, your sexual energies are suffering.

The magical solution is polysexuality, if well understood and practiced. To start, members of the couple should have discussions and finally agree to share this need, which both have, to make love with other persons in the presence or not of the other member of the couple. This polysexuality agreement rules out infidelity and its destructiveness.

Discussion, the sharing of information about an encounter or experiencing the participation of a third or perhaps third and fourth persons within the couple, there you have ways to feed the sexual life of the couple thus providing long life.

For some, there can be an additional step which is to be allowed to become polyamourous. One must understand that as our love for one's child does not reduce our love for our other children, this can be the case for the love that we have for a person who is not our spouse and this does not reduce our love for our partner within the couple. This can bring about, in some cases, living as a threesome under the same roof… but this does not necessarily end things !

Clearly love of two beings forming a couple can solidify upon recognition and therefore permitting one another to have sexual experiences with other people which will bring about tenderness as well as spicing the couple's life.

Up to both of you !

You can both come to see me, should you think that my participation to the discussion can be of help.