This guilt feeling of yours could be explained by a fear that sexual pleasures, outside the bond of marriage, displease God.
Or
You have the sense of committing treason towards your spouse since you feel that sexual pleasures, outside your union with him, are reprehensible.
I'm not an authority in theology or philosophy to tell you how you should think. But I can tell you how or what I think…
- In regard to commandments, I retain what Jesus asked us as the one commandment: Love thy neighbor as thyself. That is the only commandment he gave us and notice he didn't mention the seven
capital sins.
- Spiritually, I try to always keep myself in sync with God, leaving as little room as possible for my ego to dictate my conduct.
- My therapy for female sexuality is done in the context of Tantric massage since Tantra considers genital parts as being part of the body and should therefore be celebrated. And for a woman,
I'm happy to do the Yoni massage and this becomes a great way to add the joy that this pleasure provides as the way to finish this Tantric event.
It is my view that the discovery by a woman of the pleasures that her vagina can provide is justified because her body has needs to care for so she may remain in good health physically and
psychologically.
This desire to better understand her sexuality and the initiative to come to me will permit her to discover things that she has the wright to know. Then, her state of free will, a gift of God,
will let her take steps so that her spouse adapts himself to the new reality, changes the way he makes love or accepts to accompany her to another encounter with me. It is evident that once a
woman has discovered these new pleasures, it would be quite regretful if she does nothing to then be stimulated the proper way. So then, if you are a type of woman who cannot initiate changes
with your spouse, perhaps it would be best to forget about all this! If however, you would be determined to speak to him about your sexual life together but he doesn't want to listen, then perhaps
you are living with the wrong person.
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